I am so excited ..after two long years somebody has bothered to write comment on my blog...Why after two years? Because its has been two years since i started blogging..
ek kalakaar ko aur kya chahiyae..woh to bus thodi si tareef ka bhookha hota hain...to meherbaao, kadradaano ... pesh hain.. jaanta ki behad demand par ..(i mean the sole person who add comment on my blog).... ART OF LIVING
I was almost hit by this philosophy at age of 35 that almost every other person is frustrated with the top of pyramid above him...when I was a software engineer I was frustrated with my project leader then when I was project manager I was frustrated with my senior project manager ...and now I am senior project manager and I am frustrated with my delivery manage and senior management...my delivery manager and other senior colleague have their own frustration from their higher ups. Aur is upar upar jaanae kae chakkar main, ki upar frustration kum hoga, aadmi upar hi pahooch jaata hain.
Now the question is yeh frustration aa kahan sae raha hain...to bhaiya yeh frustration uparwaala dae raha hain ...woh upaar sae sab ki lae raha hain aur baja raha hain..
Now bhaktjano second question is ..is frustration sae kaisae bacha jayae...the solution is you start frustrating others at your level.This techniques is called sharing of frustration...
Aap kaam kartein kartein mar gayae, ki acchi rating aa jayae aur jaldi upar pahooch jaoo,..PM ban jao, SPM ban jao..aur aisae kartein kartein aap doosro ki frustration letae gayae....aapkae baal (hair) jhaad gayae ..najroon pae mota chasma lag gaya aur sundar kanyaein (girls) aapko uncle kehnae lagi ..
On the contrary, agar apnae thoda aaram sae kaam kiya hota ...rating ko dheela chod diya hota ..bajayae frustration lenae kae frustration dee hoti then you must had a life of fulfillment ...and materialistically without bringing much disparity between your status and your contemporaries...they may be having 3 BHK and you might have to settle for 2..they may be having a luxury sedan and you with Hyundai santro..but this is all mayajaal...and life is a great leveler.. because ho saktha hain uskae bacchein nalayak nikal jayae aur uska paisa donation main chala jayae..so don't be bogged down.
However, a word of caution, if they are beyond your measurable comparison than ignore them and snap all ties with them rather than hearing taunt from your wife and children e.g ek aap ho aur ek aapkae woh dost jinkae paas gaadi bangla sab kuch hain aur aapkae pass sirf MAA..
What i mean to say jyaada tension na lo ..utna kaam karo ki aapki naukri bani rahein... aur aapki life main doosri jaroori cheejo kae liyae jagaah. Also, ensure you set your personal short term and long term goal and give them same preference as you give to your work ..and achieve them, else at end of your life, ..you will be forced to rate yourself at rock bottom.
I am not sure ki kitna kiski samajh main aaya par isi ko kehtaein hain ART OF LIVING..
dhanyvaad...
PS: By reading my article you might have been enlightened.However, people having insight of this principle of art of living and others who don't share same relationship as Anna and Digvijay singh and author will not be responsible for any emotional,financial or physical damages
ek kalakaar ko aur kya chahiyae..woh to bus thodi si tareef ka bhookha hota hain...to meherbaao, kadradaano ... pesh hain.. jaanta ki behad demand par ..(i mean the sole person who add comment on my blog).... ART OF LIVING
I was almost hit by this philosophy at age of 35 that almost every other person is frustrated with the top of pyramid above him...when I was a software engineer I was frustrated with my project leader then when I was project manager I was frustrated with my senior project manager ...and now I am senior project manager and I am frustrated with my delivery manage and senior management...my delivery manager and other senior colleague have their own frustration from their higher ups. Aur is upar upar jaanae kae chakkar main, ki upar frustration kum hoga, aadmi upar hi pahooch jaata hain.
Now the question is yeh frustration aa kahan sae raha hain...to bhaiya yeh frustration uparwaala dae raha hain ...woh upaar sae sab ki lae raha hain aur baja raha hain..
Now bhaktjano second question is ..is frustration sae kaisae bacha jayae...the solution is you start frustrating others at your level.This techniques is called sharing of frustration...
Aap kaam kartein kartein mar gayae, ki acchi rating aa jayae aur jaldi upar pahooch jaoo,..PM ban jao, SPM ban jao..aur aisae kartein kartein aap doosro ki frustration letae gayae....aapkae baal (hair) jhaad gayae ..najroon pae mota chasma lag gaya aur sundar kanyaein (girls) aapko uncle kehnae lagi ..
On the contrary, agar apnae thoda aaram sae kaam kiya hota ...rating ko dheela chod diya hota ..bajayae frustration lenae kae frustration dee hoti then you must had a life of fulfillment ...and materialistically without bringing much disparity between your status and your contemporaries...they may be having 3 BHK and you might have to settle for 2..they may be having a luxury sedan and you with Hyundai santro..but this is all mayajaal...and life is a great leveler.. because ho saktha hain uskae bacchein nalayak nikal jayae aur uska paisa donation main chala jayae..so don't be bogged down.
However, a word of caution, if they are beyond your measurable comparison than ignore them and snap all ties with them rather than hearing taunt from your wife and children e.g ek aap ho aur ek aapkae woh dost jinkae paas gaadi bangla sab kuch hain aur aapkae pass sirf MAA..
What i mean to say jyaada tension na lo ..utna kaam karo ki aapki naukri bani rahein... aur aapki life main doosri jaroori cheejo kae liyae jagaah. Also, ensure you set your personal short term and long term goal and give them same preference as you give to your work ..and achieve them, else at end of your life, ..you will be forced to rate yourself at rock bottom.
I am not sure ki kitna kiski samajh main aaya par isi ko kehtaein hain ART OF LIVING..
dhanyvaad...
PS: By reading my article you might have been enlightened.However, people having insight of this principle of art of living and others who don't share same relationship as Anna and Digvijay singh and author will not be responsible for any emotional,financial or physical damages
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